Low Self Esteem in Men.

Low self  esteem and lack of confidence are often unfounded problems that affect men and can be a major contributor to depression and the onslaught of andropause, which is the male equivalent of menopause.

Whilst there are many different reasons for  low self esteem in men, one of the most common reasons stems down to bed time activity, namely a feeling of being insufficient.

Low Self Esteem affects Relationships.

Many women describe openly how their relationship with their husband seems to be falling apart. It seems as if the husband no longer wants to be intimate with her and has lost all  interest in sexual matters. Mostly in these cases, it is after a few years of marriage, and all else in the relationship seems to be great, except the part that is between the sheets. The guy is the one who starts to make excuses and to withdraw from anything in the relationship that could possibly lead to more intimate moments.

The feeling of inadequacy in bed is the prime culprit in this type of behaviour. One of the interesting things about this is that mostly the male is doing this subconciously and when confronted about it, he will realise that he has not been as intimate as he should be and will blame other matters such as stress for his inactivity in bed. A guy will seldom admit to a feeling of inadequacy in bed or for that matter in penis size.

Women tend to be far more open about sexual feelings and inadequacies, whereas the manhood of a man is at stake, and so even if he recognises the problem (many don't) he will avoid addressing and discussing the problem and rather hide behind other excuses such as stress and fatigue.

It is in the best interest of men and their wives or partners to recognise a withdrawal due to low self esteem and to address it before it becomes a major issue which could end an otherwise perfect relationship.

Men Start to Feel Inadequate.

Men mostly start to feel inadequate for one of two reasons or for both reasons combined. First there is the feeling of being below average in penis size. He feels that he is too small and that you would gain far more satisfaction if he had a bigger penis. Mostly this is an unfounded problem that exists in the mind of the man. The big problem is that once it is in the mind, it is very difficult to get it out without taking some course of action. The second problem is that of premature ejaculation. Men are often of the opinion that they can not carry on long enough to fully satisfy their partner.

Men are not nearly as open about sexual issues as women are, and most of a man's comparisons in their own performance is against pornographic images that they have seen. Only the models in the porno images are paid huge sums of money because of their unusually well endowed features and abilities.

The solution to the feeling of inadequate penis size is to first do an accurate comparison to other men. No this is not done in change rooms etc. The most comprehensive database of male penis sizes is held by SizeGenetics who have done a survey of over 780 000 men and their penis size. You can email your penis size to them, through the link on the official website,  and they will email full details back to you on just how you compare to the averages. This immediately installs peace of mind to men that they are not as small as they had imagined themselves to be.

A penis extender like the SizeGenetics extender device, remains the safest and most trusted method to increase the size of your penis.

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